– Hello today, I’m David Laroche welcoming you all in your new Wake Up Call. I’m the French speaker. I’m in Malaga today for one of my seminar in this beautiful house and I would like to talk about the polarity. One of the main mistakes we are doing and I was doing is about seeing the world as something with a polarity, things are wrong or things are good. You are a good man. You are a bad man. You are a good woman. You are a bad woman. And when you see the world in this way, you can be only in a bad mood. Why? Because you focus all your vision, feelings about if it’s not 100%, it’s 0%. For example, you will say, “I am not totally self-confident so I am totally shy,” but it’s wrong. People will say, “I’m totally bad. I can’t do that. I don’t have any progress.” And they are focusing on what they don’t have, so they see what they don’t have, and when you start to see the world not at 0 or 1, 0 to 100, or 0 to infinity, you see all the possibilities. You are saying, “Okay, it’s not about I’m wrong. It’s about I’m a good man, but I can get progress.” It’s not about it’s a bad moment. It’s a good moment. I can learn things and I can also learn things from what I don’t like to create a life I like. So it’s about learning, it’s about having experience, it’s about progress. It’s not about I hate this, I hate that. Do you understand what I mean? For example, I was shy and if I was doing only a small mistake, I was saying to myself, “You are bad,” but it’s a big mistake. And if you start to love yourself, you start to say, “I love myself no matter what I did. I start to love myself no matter if it’s good or not because it’s good. I did it with the best intention, and because it’s the best intention, it’s the best but I can learn to go to the next level.” So I just would like to show you that if you are seeing the world as positive or negative, you are forced to be bad. If you see the world in possibilities, it’s perfect to do a video. I train myself to be focused. I don’t know if you hear this noise. I can hear and say, “It is destroying my video,” or I can say, “Okay, how can I use it? How can I learn from that? How can I use this noise to be more focused, to train my English? How can I use that in the video?” And if I start to use the problems in possibilities and opportunities, I am free and I want to be free. Free of the external circumstances, because no matter who I am, there will be bad circumstances. But if I train myself to transform everything, I am free and I want to help you to be free. Thank you very much. Share the video and bye-bye. See you at Los Angeles for seminars and conferences. I’m coming in Los Angeles. Bye. ♪[music]♪
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